8th January 2016
subject : Death of Mamee / aunty
yesterday my mamee duly named Yogini Maheshbhai Bhatt expired after long period of facing the decease, named cancer....
In Hindu param-para / mythology there is certain importance of DONEE's rules not followed by nature as broken by too much heat. That is very unexpectedly happen. such few steps of the same ie how to make body burn in the smashan and during the that period what are the VIDHEE happen are giving you in small brief as according
after anybody's death in Hindu brahmin parivar
- make a choka by the cow's chhan/podra and water and make ANTKAAL DIVO
- make a antim ladu of wheat atta
- after make bath of the dead body, give space the body on the choka with the same and put the ladu and shreephal with body
- after packed the body on the THATHADEE BY ROPES make flower decoration on body with chader NADACHHADEE and dhoop for good fragrance as avoid bad small of the body
- after came of every related personnel the son or related personnel who picking up the body on THATHADEE make their own body's bath and wear pitamber
- all people make pradakshina of body with pushpanjalee
- then all four people who wear pitambar make out the body out side the home's gate and once put down on earth again pick up the body in the van
- mean while the BHANJA of the family ie sister's son picking up the DONEE which has fumes of cow's chhan's heat and ghee and make approach him-self as the first person of informing about the NANAMEE'S YATRA to other and mean while the rules is the same guy should not see back of him until he reached at smashan as the dead body's is coming back behind him.
- after reached at smashan, people piking up the dead body to the fire place
- mean while people said RAM BOLO BHAI RAM or RAMAI RAM AA or SHREE KRISHNA SHARNAM MAMA
- then removing all ropes the desi pure ghee rub on the body, like wise on hand, legs, face etc the dead body push in to the electrick fire place or the wooden fire place as suitable...as in city TIME IS MONEY....
- after proper finished the body by the heat the MASANIYA personnel took the bones of the body and give us for TADHEE mean give such few kind of relaxation of body...
- for TADHEE the son who give the AGNIDAHA TO THE BODY is spread cold milk on the hot bones and then pick up few of the same for SHRADH and SARAVANEE KRIYA
- then make full water of mud jug put on his right shoulder and make pradakshina and broken the same and make walk away from the shamshan without watching back and make out himself from the place as the RUNANUBANDH is finished for the life journey....
- all people come to home and make KOGLA ie mouth freshing by water the son of the dead personnel say JAY SHREE KRUSHNA to all people and all people disbursed from the same place....
- then people arrange GEETA path till 13 days and BESNA DAY for one day for SHOK SABHA....
- then certain process are as mentioned
- on 10th day UTHAMANU
- on 12th day SARAVANEE VIDHEE / ASTHEE VISARJANA AT RIVER yajurveda's 40th lesson PURUSHSUKTA PATH....
- on 13th day SAJIYA VIDIHEE AND all necessary items of life are purchased for the vidhee are to be given in donation to the family's daughter including gold, kumbh, umbrella, bed, rajai, and manymore other items not mentioned here.....
- on 15th day MASIYO DAY AND CHANGE THE SADEE VIDHEE FOR LADIES then people of the said home can wear colouring clothes ...
- then yearly SHRADDH in specific month....after year by year.....
people are celebrating these all day very happily and even as per their financial condition....
in Hindu mythology the death is very expensive function as per my personal observation....
may be i am wrong or such few items of vidhee forgot by me on furnishing the same as i am very young and fresh for the same and even my english language is very poor for breifing all vidhee in certain proper name but who are knowledgeable can give their suggestion better then me for the 13th day's of DEATH FUNCTION....
here i am giving you a link of the ANTYESHTEE of wikipedia....
hope my YOGINEE mamee's soul get good PATH......
Jigar Mehta / Jaigishya
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