25th
July 2014
Children
- Suspicious Observer…
Today in fresh morning I was doing my work with my
laptop and suddenly my daughter is came from her room and talked to her maa
about her yesterday’s school activity and I surprised to notice that she always
used to spoken her sir’s and madam’s activities constantly... even I am happy
to see her collaboration with her maa about the same as well good to heard her
words whatever she spoken.
Then after I went to put her at her study class
which are different from school (in Gujarat though the rule is in negative mode, so much private
classis are running) and again she spoken such words about her madam and
told me during the time while she is seated behind me on two seater. Same
moment I decided to write such matter on that what children are accepting as well expecting from
the elder.
See, we all are very good while saying good notes,
matter, subject, story to children but some of our activity are very different
as we can said that those are our practically sanctioned for our personal level
but when a child observing the same and when he/she doing such same style work
in absence of elder and when we know the same...may be some times such
condition is very unbearable for all at same moment.
We could not justify our self for the same episode
and making big style of surprise on our face if the same is in positive mode
and/or making big anger on our face if the same is in negative mode. Sometimes,
people feeling shame for own karma or work from which the child doing or making
copy.
Mostly we people try to make good, smart as well
better personality in home or office against the any child and that is for our
or any body’s child has to maintain such good repo in her mind and try doing
better work for human or society is our mind set up. The statement is mostly
approximately correct in favourable condition.
In such case the child have some own efficiency and
doing better performance in her childhood as well in life and our government
giving big certificate as well respect on national days. There are somuch
examples are there.
In such case in house sometimes the elder people
have so much office or business work or in the race of earning money or doing
facing some spiritualness problem or social problem, anyhow, forget to take
care of her own child care and result could be face by us is in different type
of mode. Either the same is in negative or positive...
We all are very well known or familiar about the
movies from which we are knowing very good about the social image as well what
is done or to be done for better progress in or for the society, where so much
kind of people staying together. But that is in positive factor that mostly
thinking good for the children and mostly tries to do good even better and best
roll part in life when any child is staying near of them. That is the most
effective sense.
We can talk on media part also who are generally
discussing or showing news of different style as they also have to earn for FOOD.
We could not refusing the same as when such child or such elder personnel doing
BAD or GOOD thing, we justifying in front of our child and try to make better
response to the same subject for positivity.
Even more, the children mostly follow the tradition
whatever they are looking surrounding.
In some houses
if elder people doing prayer, respecting religion
feelings
if the elder people doing constant work for job or
business,
if the elder people doing the work constant on such
subject,
if the elder people reading or watching news,
if the elder people taking a part in the group
discussion,
if the elder people respecting all,
if the elder people behaving in such special manners
like positive or negative
etc etc...
the child observing all things and as according
behaving in his/her time during the gathering time of children at school or in
society.
When I was watching movie duly named FARARI KEE
SAWARI, the grand paa of the son said on dialog “Jo Dekhega Wo Sikhega” ie
“Whatever he see, he will learn the same” concept is for life not for study room or else.
See, presently we are very familiar about the word
“WAR” but not from the side effect. Even during playing game of police and
thief, that is very popular in children. But the effect of harm, children are much
unknown from the same, as they have knowledge about the TRUTH only, that police
definitely find the thief and treat him in strictly punishing mode.
Same as while learning they have proper knowledge
about the minimum unit of country’s currency but in the teenager age they could
not find that and even the TRADIDTION of the small unit of currency is still
going on his path so far away, from the learning process while comparing the
international level of the same country currency.
My concept is that, we have to change our personal
dignity as well the process of learning as well the system of administration
for children as well the teenager children who are not awaking as well not have
awareness of the different type of truth from which they can expand their children
live better in future. For that, from starting right now, we have to make our
behaviour in pleasant mode with self-dignity. Hence we can find truthfulness in
our children and we can give support to the future children in facing any mode
like parent, uncle & aunty or grand level.
Though I am not professional writer but trying to
spreading out my personal thought to you so please forgive my grammar mistakes
if any because I know well that whatever you have to do but the thought is
coming in your mind is that your mother toungh only then you spread it out in
other language. The statement is coming from the best teacher of children duly
name Madam Dr. Montessory.
If you have time please check the participation of
the same lady about children growth during 1st to five year age... wonderful...
Jigar Mehta
see the face of both
